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Articles on life and special interests. Have you ever been down because of love? How do you handle break ups?
Coping with break ups! Be practical!
"It was terrible thing and I just couldn't handle it at first. I spent weeks crying. My hopes with him all gone in an instant. I cursed my luck. I was lucky that my family is around but I think the best cure was to go out as much as possible.", told Jane. It is the best bet! Try to go for places like FriendSearch for instant friendship. Don't be stingy. At least get on their subscription for a month. In that one month be intense and focused. Be persistent. Try to be friends to a lot of people. Focusing on one person will not help as chances are, if you get rejected again, the pain is twice as deep. Some people go to myspace or friendster for solace. They keep posting many different pictures of themselves in various different angles and light just to feel good about themselves. They collect friends instead of trying to get to know them better. Whatever it is be practical! Don't go after your ex like crazy madcow. Be sensible. If you are destined together, he/she will definitely come back for you. May be you are fated to be with someone else, who is better. Who knows? Life works in very funny way. If it takes 30 dates for you to find that replacement, so be it! Don't ever look back. It has been a tragedy, just let it go!
Have you watched Someone Like You by Ashley Judd. Owh please, don't be like her. In the end, she realises that it is better off be someone else than gets so hung up on her ex. Get real. It is time for you start thinking about yourself. Think about what you want to do with your life. Think about how you can get rich and achieve what you have always dreamed of in life. Leave the past behind. If you still have problems getting over it, there are forums on the net for you get it all out. These includes Cari and Mesra.net. Try looking at others' life and see that you can also be as happy. It's natural for people to have problems. But life goes on. See the fotopages and blogs for a reflection on other people's lifes at our life page.
Here are some of the interesting people you can meet at myspace.com. You have to register first to use the service (for free). Click on the picture to go directly to their sites.

If you think you don't have what it takes to tackle the women, don't be sad. This website contains a few articles for you to improve your human relations skills. But for complete advice, try to go these sites on "How to Start Dating Beautiful Women Regardless of Your Looks or Financial Situations" or "How to Impress Women". This is the same technique as used by Hitch in the Hitch movie. In these articles, you will learn on how to overcome nervous breakdowns as well as choosing the right words on your first date. You will also learn on how to deal with women. Our articles:
PANDUAN DATING!
Sudah jumpa yang sesuai? Sudah bersedia untuk ber"dating"? Mungkin panduan ini berguna (10 Tips Dating!)
CARA-CARA MEMIKAT LELAKI
Lelaki...
1. Bila si dia sibuk........
Jangan pula kamu terhegeh-hegeh meminta si dia menjemput kamu di tempat kerja
ataupun menemani kamu pergi membeli-belah.
2. Bila si dia ego.......
Jangan sesekali kamu mempersoalkan tentang keegoan bila sikap sebegini sedang
menguasai dirinya. Lelaki amat payah utk mengakui dirinya ego sebaliknya
berpendapat ianya ketegasan.
3. Bila si dia romantik........
Ajaklah si dia bersiar-siar di tepi pantai ataupun makan malam di bawah cahaya
lilin sambil mengenangi saat-saat manis pertemuan pertama dan jgn lupa selit
sekali perancangan utk masa depan bersama.
4. Bila si dia panas baran........
Jgn membuat sesuatu yg boleh menyemarakkan lagi perasaan marahnya. Cuba kamu
berdiam diri dulu sampai kemarahan reda.
5. Bila si dia penat.......
Jgn mengadu perkara ataupun bercerita ttg hal yg remeh. Dalam saat sebegini si
dia hanya perlu rehat yg secukupnya dan jgn memaksa dia membuat sesuatu yg boleh
menambah kepenatan.
6. Bila si dia pentingkan diri sendiri.........
Cuba berterus-terang dan meluahkan rasa tidak puas hati kamu tentang sikapnya
itu. Kamu patut bersikap terbuka dan memintanya supaya mengimbangi pendapat kamu
juga. Jgn lupa utk bertoleransi antara satu sama lain.
7. Bila si dia mengongkong.....
Kalau kamu memberontak, pasti akan dimarahinya. Tapi kalau menurut saja katanya
takut menjejaskan diri sendiri. Utk itu, kamu perlu berkata padanya utk
membiarkan kamu membuat keputusan sendiri asalkan tidak menjejas hubungan kamu
berdua.
8. Bila si dia selamba.......
Cuba tarik perhatian si dia. Contohnya membuat sesuatu yg boleh menarik minatnya.
Orang yg selamba ini selalunya ingin kita yg memulakan dahulu. Oleh sebab itu,
kamu patut merancang sesuatu bagaimana utk menarik perhatiannya.
9. Bila si dia curang.....
Jgn tuduh tanpa usul periksa. Jika benar si dia curang, bersemuka dan tanya
dengan si dia mengapa bersikap begitu. Tapi kalau si dia tetap dengan
keputusannya, eloklah kamu sendiri yg berundur dulu sebelum makin parah kelukaan
hati.
10. Bila si dia lurus bendul......
Memang kamu boleh mengambil kesempatan ke atas dirinya tetapi jgn sampai
memperlekehkan setiap tindak tanduknya. Kamu patut menjadi perangsang padanya
dan mengatakan yg si dia mampu membuat keputusan sendiri tanpa mengharapkan org
lain sangat.
Source: http://resipilelaki.blogspot.com
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